by Faye Goode

Women from across the United States gathered together in Anderson, Indiana, on October 15-18, 2015, for the Christian Women Connection annual Board of Directors and Connection Council meetings. Sounds of laughter, the greeting of friends, and the joy of seeing acquaintances filled the air as state and national leaders assembled for the business of Christian Women Connection. From the opening prayer to the closing benediction we were thankful to God for bringing us through another year.

As we listened to the reports of our national leaders it was evident that our ministry is strong and reaches beyond the borders of these United States. Our missionary support is at an all-time high and new ministries are springing up within CWC to serve the under-privileged.  Our 2014 Waves of Grace national convention was successful on all fronts and plans are already underway for the 2017 national convention. Although we did not meet the 2014 Christ Birthday Offering goal we experienced an increase over the prior year offering which allowed CWC to fund new ministry projects. We heard from representatives of the Native American Council, the National Association Women of the Church of God and Clergy Women who serve on the CWC Board of Directors. 

New to our Connection Council meeting was Leadership Training! Bishop Milton Grannum led an exciting Leadership conference and he challenged us as CWC leaders to share the stories of our ministry so that others can see how we are blessing lives. 
Our ministry is not without its challenges as operating funds continue to be the subject of much discussion with regard to funding operations during difficult economic times.  The Board of Directors, along with the Finance Committee, continues to seek resources to fund our national operations.

And finally we all had the wonderful opportunity to meet our national staff! These are the people who are there to greet us when we phone in, answer our emails, pack and ship our product orders, and keep the ministry functioning on a daily basis. We thank God for them and keep them in your prayers as they serve CWC.

At the end of the meeting, the council voted unanimously to alter the vision and mission statement of Christian Women Connection. Our new vision is “to serve Christ through equipping and empowering women for Christian ministry.” Our new mission is “to build positive relationships with women everywhere and to provide ministry resources to the Church of God and other groups for connecting women through relationships, spiritual formation, and service, and to train and empower women for leadership in peace building and reconciliation.”
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Our ministry is strong and to God be the glory for the great things he has done and continues to do through Christian Women Connection!!

Faye Goode is the National Vice President of Christian Women Connection and the Product Stewardship Supervisor for PPG Architectural Coatings, Inc.  She and her husband Kevin, Senior Pastor of The Church of the Harvest Church of God in Middleburg Heights Ohio, have three children and one grandson. 

By Mary Stephens

A catalytic event, defined by Brenda Salter McNeil, is “the often painful but necessary experiences that happen to individuals and organizations and serve to jump-start the reconciliation process.” Christian Women Connection (CWC), like many, experienced a few catalytic events in 2015. These events highlighted areas of racism, prejudice, and broken relationships happening in CWC groups, churches, and communities. In October of 2015 the Christian Women Connection Council met and we openly talked about the need for reconciliation in our ministry and we agreed that we would act. The Council voted unanimously to amend our mission statement to include the following statement, “to train and empower women for leadership in peace building and reconciliation.” Read the full mission statement here.
 
As the national staff of Christian Women Connection met in meetings and planning sessions, we realized that we can change a mission statement, but it is meaningless if we don’t live that mission. That desire for change and the challenge to do the work of reconciliation, led us to read Roadmap to Reconciliation: Moving Communities into Unity, Wholeness and Justice by Brenda Salter McNeil.
 
Rev. Dr. Brenda Salter McNeil is an expert in reconciliation, especially in faith communities. She holds degrees from North Park University, Fuller Theological Seminary, and Palmer Theological Seminary and she is an associate professor of reconciliation studies at Seattle Pacific University where she directs the Reconciliation Studies program. An ordained pastor in the Evangelical Covenant Church, she is a dynamic speaker and author who has led many churches, colleges, and communities through the process of reconciliation.
 
In the first chapter of the book, Salter McNeil defines reconciliation as “an ongoing process involving forgiveness, repentance and justice that restores broken relationships and systems to reflect God’s original intentional for all creation to flourish.” With this essential first step, she leads us to the path of reconciliation, where diversity is celebrated as a blessing from God. Salter McNeil rightly starts with scripture and theology because our understanding of God and God’s story informs our relationships with people and because “…the work of reconciliation does not begin with us; it begins with God.”
 
One of the great gifts of this book is the illustration of the Reconciliation Roadmap, developed by Salter McNeil through her experience teaching and leading reconciliatory initiatives. The roadmap diagrams the phases needed (realization, identification, preparation, activation) for individuals and groups to experience transformation and to become “communities of reconciled people.” Each phase is given a chapter where Salter McNeil’s wisdom is evident. She not only describes the processes, but details the pitfalls and challenges. She gives advice and shares her personal experiences, both positive and negative. Each chapter ends with practical exercises that promote conversation and understanding.
 
The beauty of Salter McNeil’s book is that it’s not just a treatise on the importance of reconciliation (although that’s definitely in the book), but it’s a useful guide that challenges readers to move beyond “feel-good” moments and engage in the messy, sometimes tense work of reconciliation.  She cautions the reader to not expect reconciliation to be a linear journey, but instead to remember it’s a circular path where we must remain intentional and vigilant. Salter McNeil writes, “…you will know you are on a true reconciliation journey if it is messy and complicated and beautiful and transformational.”
 
This book not only initiated revealing conversations during our national staff meeting, but it made us take inventory of voices and stories that we need to hear, places we need to get involved, and how much we have yet to learn. Maybe most importantly, it reminded us that work of reconciliation is kingdom work. In the final chapter, Salter McNeil writes, “Every time we bridge racial, ethnic, gender and socioeconomic divides, we become prophetic witnesses to the reality of the kingdom of God.”
 
I cannot recommend this book highly enough. Read it! Read it in your women’s group and talk about it. Don’t just read it, but commit to traveling the road to reconciliation. Be proclaimers of this reality in the kingdom of God: we are all created in the image of God and our differences are divine gifts. "After this I looked, and there was a great multitude that no one could count, from every nation, from all tribes and peoples and languages, standing before the throne and before the Lamb" (Revelation 7:9).